Author Topic: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now  (Read 4697 times)

Offline suraiya

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 146
    • View Profile
Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« on: November 04, 2010, 09:08:14 AM »
Eve teasing and the miseries caused by it have taken an alarming form in our country. It is really a matter of shame that in the age of globalization and digitalization, there exists a such a henious phenomena in Bangladesh.

The death of the college teacher Mr. Mizan and Ms. Chanpa Rani, a mother of four daughters are the victims who protested against the stalkers.

Besides, there are hundreds of cases where the victims commit sucide or their family members  are assaulted both physically and mentally. It is a pity that any stringent legal action against these stalkers has not yet been taken. I don't know how much sacrifices are required to pass a severe punishment for the stalkers.

There should be a scope for punishment when any stalker is caught at the beginning of his stalking. There is no point in waiting for the ultimate aftermath - death. We should stop a stalker immediately rather waiting to see how far he proceeds with his mean plan.
« Last Edit: November 04, 2010, 09:26:13 AM by Shamim Ansary »
Senior Lecturer
Department of English

Offline Shamim Ansary

  • Administrator
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 3557
  • Change Yourself, the whole will be changed
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #1 on: November 04, 2010, 09:25:51 AM »
A large part of young generation has gone at the verge of astray now a days. Following might be the probable causes behind this suffocation situation for the whole civilization:

-- Exotic Culture achieved from abroad (in is miserable that we usually copy the bad things, not good things).
-- Depression.
-- Lack of social and family bondage.
-- Unemployment, the stalkers' brains are the Devil's asylum.
-- Negligence from and of the family.
-- Bad associations.
-- Dominating mentality over the physically weaker sex.
-- Satellite and Mobile culture.
-- Political involvement and abuse of power.
-- Detachment from the family.
-- Ignorant and defying of the law.
-- Lack of Respect upon the opposite sex.

This heinous attitude towards female sect should be prevented from the family, from the beginning.

And what is most important, is to create exemplary punishment by the Law (Our Law regarding this should be amended) which will set examples before all. When anybody senses that he can escape the law, with no surprise, he might go to the Dog.
« Last Edit: November 04, 2010, 09:50:27 AM by Shamim Ansary »
"Many thanks to Allah who gave us life after having given us death and (our) final return (on the Day of Qiyaamah (Judgement)) is to Him"

Offline Shah - Al - Mamun

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 215
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #2 on: November 04, 2010, 09:46:56 AM »
A large part of young generation has gone at the verge of astray now a days. Following might be the probable causes behind this suffocation situation for the whole civilization:

-- Exotic Culture achieved from abroad (in is miserable that we usually copy the bad things, not good things).
-- Depression.
-- Lack of social and family bondage.
-- Unemployment, the stalkers' brains are the Devil's asylum.
-- Negligence from and of the family.
-- Bad associations.
-- Dominating mentality over the physically weaker sex.
-- Satellite and Mobile culture.
-- Political involvement and abuse of power.
-- Detachment from the family.
-- Ignorant and defying of the law.
-- Lack of Respect upon the opposite sex.


This heinous attitude towards female sect should be prevented from the family, from the beginning.

And what is most important, is to create exemplary punishment by the Law (Our Law regarding this should be amended) which will set examples before all. When anybody senses that he can escape the law, with no surprise, he might go to the Dog.

All the points marked above are within a cycle. If anyone stops one of the point, other points back up for it. So it is almost impossible to stop eve teasers. They are so much twisted mentally that there is no cure.
I also do not think that they can be stopped from the family as sometimes eve teasers gain their heinous attitude from their friends (more like wrong companion).
An eve teaser actually doesn't care about anything at all. If you shout at him today he will only get worse tomorrow and we can not just remain silent too. One who doesn't care of anything, not even his family can be very dangerous as there is absolutely no way he can understand what others feel about them. Only way to stop eve teasers is to create a social bond strong enough to overpower their twisted cycle.

Regards,

Shah - Al - Mamun
« Last Edit: November 04, 2010, 09:50:12 AM by Shamim Ansary »
With best regards,

Offline suraiya

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 146
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #3 on: November 04, 2010, 10:00:49 AM »
First, the stalkers should be severely punished for what they did. Then social bond might help to rehabilitate them through counselling and engaging them in positive activities.

Social bond can prevent someone turning to a stalker. Social bond might play a role in a mild way by boycotting stalkers until they stop eve teasing.

But the stalkers can never be given to opportunity with the vague hope that they would rectify themselves.
Senior Lecturer
Department of English

Offline Shah - Al - Mamun

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 215
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #4 on: November 04, 2010, 10:16:35 AM »
First, the stalkers should be severely punished for what they did. Then social bond might help to rehabilitate them through counselling and engaging them in positive activities.

Social bond can prevent someone turning to a stalker. Social bond might play a role in a mild way by boycotting stalkers until they stop eve teasing.

But the stalkers can never be given to opportunity with the vague hope that they would rectify themselves.

Dear Madam,
Is it really possible to punish the stalkers severely without the social bond? Suppose we are attempting to punish a stalker. What problem do we face in the process? Someone/some people from the society is/are backing up for them... maybe he will get back up from his twisted friends, his own family member (who will not think that what crime that stalked has committed rather what is their relation with him), someone powerful living in the society (maybe political leader or rich business man ) and so on. We can not stop them because they actually have more bonds than us (harsh truth). How can i say that? Did you notice how many people step forward to protect someone from even the least group of hijackers? Same thing happens for the eve teasers/stalkers. So to stop them we need to form a true bond not only a bond of mere speech.

Regards,

Shah - Al - Mamun
With best regards,

Offline suraiya

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 146
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #5 on: November 04, 2010, 10:28:50 AM »
Dear Mr. Mamun,

Social bond can act as a preventive measure . It can prevent from our youth from turning to stalkers but the existing stalkers should be punished by law and after that social bond will rehabilitate them so that they can lead a normal life.

I agree with your stress on social bond but I also want the strict law to punish the stalkers who caused death and sufferings to people. Do you think that these stalkers who committed crime should go without nay punishment?

Both social bond and strict law are required to stop eve teasing in our country.
Senior Lecturer
Department of English

Offline Shah - Al - Mamun

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 215
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #6 on: November 04, 2010, 10:45:32 AM »
Dear Mr. Mamun,

Social bond can act as a preventive measure . It can prevent from our youth from turning to stalkers but the existing stalkers should be punished by law and after that social bond will rehabilitate them so that they can lead a normal life.

I agree with your stress on social bond but I also want the strict law to punish the stalkers who caused death and sufferings to people. Do you think that these stalkers who committed crime should go without nay punishment?

Both social bond and strict law are required to stop eve teasing in our country.


Dear Madam,

I agree that strict law is required to stop eve teasing but what I am trying to say is that social bond can be more strict than the law as sometimes no matter how much strict the law is it can be manipulated.
Please consider this as a personal opinion only.

Regards,

Shah - Al - Mamun
With best regards,

Offline suraiya

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 146
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #7 on: November 05, 2010, 04:51:12 PM »
The IGP asks the journalists to term 'eve teasing' as 'sexual harrassment'. (The Daily Star: 5th November, 2010).

Like the media, our forum can play a vital role in stopping eve teasing in our country. I would like to request all forum members to come forward to solve this serious problem.
Senior Lecturer
Department of English

Offline goodboy

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 1133
  • "Find your ways, Built your inspiration."
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #8 on: November 19, 2010, 01:57:42 AM »
I felt very annoyed & got disgusted when I came to know the incident about the several murders of those who protested against the EVE TEASERS. Why they were killed?????!!! I don't know. But they shown to us that how it can be demolished.......... We all should come together & being worldwide, we all can make a great impact on this uncivilized nuisance........................

Shajib
bba 101-11-1375 
Md. Abul Hossain Shajib.
101-11-1375
Department of BBA, Sec:B.
25th Batch.
Daffodil International University.
Email: shajib_1375@diu.edu.bd
Admin Executive
creative.bd

Offline suraiya

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 146
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #9 on: November 21, 2010, 09:19:19 AM »
Yes, it is really upsetting for all of us to see that even the Eid joy is turned to mourning for dear ones as they protested against eve tesing or some unlawful activities.
It is alarming that even inrtoducing new measure to punish the stalkers, situation has not been improved. Rather they are carrying out their henious activities with full energy and determination.

We cannot let this continue any longer. We should come up with solution
Senior Lecturer
Department of English

Offline aunoo

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 102
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #10 on: December 16, 2010, 10:39:16 PM »
i personally think this is bad impact of adopting foreign culture and also the negative sight of blessing of science. Bcs first a male guy disturbed a female guy through mobile if she ignore him he become to tease that guy. At the end of this teasing the female turned on death. we r greately against this eve teasing and should protest not only through puting strict laws. We have to increase the family morality to prevent this problem from our country.
Kazi Md. Anayate-A-Alahi
Dep:BBA
Sec:B
Id:101-11-1379
Cell:01723868348

Offline farzanamili

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 471
  • Word has power, use it wisely!
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #11 on: December 19, 2010, 01:15:40 PM »
yes, I agree with Aunoo....Family should come forward to help their boys in correctifying them and girl's family should not rebuke her,rather they should help them by giving mental support...
Mirza Farzana Iqbal Chowdhury
Senior Lecturer
Department of Law
Daffodil International University.

Offline aunoo

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 102
    • View Profile
Re: Stop Eve Teasing Right Now
« Reply #12 on: December 20, 2010, 11:14:35 AM »
thank you Mam.........
Kazi Md. Anayate-A-Alahi
Dep:BBA
Sec:B
Id:101-11-1379
Cell:01723868348