Dear Shibli,
Thank you for your persistence and patience!
Reflection is of course for those interested. Getting into a 'rut' as you put it applies to other areas as well. I will quote an example from kitchen management. While cooking, you reach for the salt, but the salt pot is empty. So you send someone to the bazaar to get salt. Later on, you need oil, and you find to your amazement that there is no oil. You send out the person again for oil and so on. What is the kitchen management style? Cooking gets delayed while everyone is working hard. People shout when the cooked meal is delayed, yet everyone in the kitchen thinks they are working very hard and no one appreciates them.
Should the person managing the kitchen reflect? More to the point, does this person have time to reflect? However, if this person made the time to find out how much salt and oil were required during a week or a month and did the shopping accordingly, who would benefit? In addition to saving time and money the ultimate effort needed in the kitchen would be less and definitely there would be less running around. We would also be able to predict when the salt and oil will be most likely running out.
With our students, similarly, if we took stock of their quality, their learning habits and problems, their background, we may realise that only so much is possible. Our teaching plans would take into account their background and consequently we may have to set our targets and expectations lower. This way instead of learning nothing, they might actually learn something. We may find that as teachers ourselves, having achieved a little, we may then have a sense of achievement and may want to achieve more - a step at a time.
Whatever we do in life requires reflection, otherwise using your quote from Alice in Wonderland, if we don't know where we are going, any road will lead us there. To plot where we are going, we need to find out where we are first.
Those who don't reflect may ultimately be helped by those who do reflect and come up with better ways to live our lives.
-Yousuf