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10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« on: December 03, 2011, 11:23:57 AM »
10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship

Just like with any relationship, building a positive relationship between parent and child is one that requires work and effort to make it strong and successful. Parenting is a tough job, and maintaining close relationships and open communications helps to ensure parents and their children stay connected through all ages of their upbringing. Here are 10 simple tips for enhancing the bond between parent and child.
1. Say I Love You
Tell your child you love him every day -- no matter his age. Even on trying days or after a parent-child disagreement, when you don't exactly "like your child" at that moment, it is more important than ever to express your love. A simple "I love you" goes a long way toward developing and then strengthening a relationship.
2. Teach Your Faith
Teach your child about your faith and beliefs. Tell him what you believe and why. Allow time for your child to ask questions and answer them honestly. Reinforce those teachings often.
3. Establish a Special Name Or Code Word
Create a special name for your child that is positive and special or a secret code word that you can use between each other. Use the name as a simple reinforcement of your love. The code word can be established to have special meaning between your child and you that only you two understand. This code word can even be used to extract a child from an uncomfortable situation (such as a sleepover that is not going well) without causing undue embarrassment to the child.
4. Develop and Maintain A Special Bedtime Ritual
For younger children, reading a favorite bedtime book or telling stories is a ritual that will be remembered most likely throughout their life. Older children should not be neglected either. Once children start reading, have them read a page, chapter, or short book to you. Even most teenagers still enjoy the ritual of being told goodnight in a special way by a parent--even if they don't act like it!
5. Let Your Children Help You
Parents sometimes inadvertently miss out on opportunities to forge closer relationships by not allowing their child to help them with various tasks and chores. Unloading groceries after going to the store is a good example of something that children of most ages can and should assist with. Choosing which shoes look better with your dress lets a child know you value her opinion. Of course, if you ask, be prepared to accept and live with the choice made!
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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #1 on: December 03, 2011, 11:25:24 AM »

6. Play with Your Children
The key is to really play with your children. Play with dolls, ball, make believe, checkers, sing songs, or whatever is fun and interesting. It doesn't matter what you play, just enjoy each other! Let kids see your silly side. Older kids enjoy cards, chess, computer games, while younger ones will have fun playing about anything...as long as it involves you!
7. Eat Meals as A Family
You've heard this before, and it really is important! Eating together sets the stage for conversation and sharing. Turn the TV off, and don't rush through a meal. When schedules permit, really talk and enjoy one another. It can become a quality time most remembered by young and old alike.
8. Seek Out One-On-One Opportunities Often
Some parents have special nights or "standing dates" with their children to create that one-on-one opportunity. Whether it is a walk around the neighborhood, a special trip to a playground, or just a movie night with just the two of you, it is important to celebrate each child individually. Although it is more of a challenge the more children in a family, it is really achievable! Think creatively and the opportunities created will be ones that you remember in the future.
9. Respect Their Choices
You don't have to like their mismatched shirt and shorts or love how a child has placed pictures in his room. However, it is important to respect those choices. Children reach out for independence at a young age, and parents can help to foster those decision-making skills by being supportive and even looking the other way on occasion. After all, it really is okay if a child goes to daycare with a striped green shirt and pink shorts.
10. Make Them a Priority in Your Life
Your children need to know that you believe they are a priority in your life. Children can observe excessive stress and notice when they feel you are not paying them attention. Sometimes, part of being a parent is not worrying about the small stuff and enjoying your children. They grow up so fast, and every day is special. Take advantage of your precious time together while you have it!
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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #2 on: December 03, 2011, 01:21:23 PM »
Positive relationship between parent and child is very important. I think your post will help to improve the relationship.
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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #3 on: December 07, 2011, 12:43:06 PM »
nice

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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #4 on: December 08, 2011, 10:59:17 PM »
Make a very good relation with your parents. Nice post.
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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #5 on: December 11, 2011, 07:54:44 PM »
Every parents and child relationship is positive and very nice and sweet-able in the world. The best and better relationship is the parents and child relationship. It can not break any time and stay in the whole life.
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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #6 on: December 12, 2011, 10:39:36 PM »
Nice post.
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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #7 on: March 05, 2012, 08:45:30 AM »
nice topic
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avoid putting yourself before others and you can become a leader among men.

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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #8 on: June 30, 2012, 02:52:16 PM »
nice post...

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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #9 on: June 04, 2013, 10:37:16 AM »
Very nice post.

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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #10 on: June 18, 2013, 12:10:26 PM »
I have twins. This article will help me a lot to make a good relationship with the kids. I must share this article in FB to share with my husband. It will help the new parents too.

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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #11 on: August 19, 2013, 05:14:11 PM »
yes parents will be helped by the post.

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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #12 on: September 04, 2013, 11:58:44 PM »
nice post

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Re: 10 Tips to Build/Maintain a Positive Parent-Child Relationship
« Reply #13 on: September 17, 2013, 12:36:58 PM »
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