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ashiqbest012:
You are right Mr. Rumman sir. I agree with you.

raju:
Dear All,
I strongly believe that positive leadership and positive organizational behavior are activities our social fabric needs to learn, embrace and develop.  In keeping with this, we can frame comments positively and conversations and discussions that develop from this forum further the optimism, hope, and faithful experiences.

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Regards,

Raju

raju:
Dear Papon:

Greetings!

May be you will be agreed that the root of much unhappiness is comparison. Comparison gets in the way of healthy self-appreciation — and thus happiness – more than anything else. Because of comparison, hardly anybody is ever happy with what they get and nothing’s ever good enough for practically everybody. That’s because we measure our success in anything by comparing it to what others have or to what we have had before.
In other words, whether you are happy with what you get depends on how it measures up to some norm. That norm depends on two things: what other people get (social comparison), and what you yourself are used to getting (habituation). It is hard for success in any form (money, status, prestige, and so on) to improve your happiness because as actual success rises, the norm by which success is judged rises in step.

A study, for instance, found Olympic bronze medalists to be happier than silver medalists. The bronze medalists, it turns out, tended to compare themselves with all the people who competed but won no medal at all, while the silver medalists compared themselves with the gold medal winners and tortured themselves with the belief that they could have – should have – won the gold. Similarly, in families, it has been found that the more your spouse earns, the less satisfied you are with your own job.

Because we constantly compare ourselves to others, we don’t feel good about what we have and who we are. The grass seems greener in neighbor’s lawn. Continuing with this metaphor, it might be said that the grass always seems to be greener in neighbor’s yard because (1) we’re urinating on our own lawn and (2) looking at neighbor’s lawn from our lawn, and everything looks better from a distance. There is only one solution to this “grass is greener” problem: practicing self-appreciation. Self-appreciation involves both staying off of other people’s lawns and taking care of your own.

Let’s try to be happy with your selection!

Regards,

Raju





--- Quote from: papon_banik on August 12, 2010, 11:59:30 AM ---Dear friend Ashiq

I respect your opinion. As you are peaceful student, so authority should respect our demand and solve all of our demand.

I hope university will provide us all of facilities like EWU, NSU, BU.

Thank you

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shibli:
I totally agree with Raju Bhai that the root cause of much unhappiness of human beings is that they compare what they have with others. Raju bhai has got a car, i don't have. So, i am unhappy. Truly hardly anybody is ever happy with what he or she gets. That’s because we estimate our successes in anything by comparing it to what others have or to what we have had before. Also, we hardly ever count our blessings and be happy with what we have.

We, people always tend to grumble and complain about what we don't get without counting the blessings and benefits of what we already have and what we are enjoying now. I think we want more and more out of life.

Let's appreciate what we already have rather than cry over what we don't have. Let's be happy with whatever we have. Things couldn't be better because things could be worse.

Let's believe in Only one GOD who is the Sustainer, and Cherisher and HE provides us the best what we deserve either in this world or in the Hereafter. Let us all be positive, shan't we?    

lincon-bre-02:
Mr Ashiq Just I've to say I respect your opinion .....

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