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Dear Sir,
I am Shaharia from L1T1 batch. that workshop was very nice. But sir, we should arrange it very largely by informing students of every department.
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Self Development workshop on Time management
« Reply #16 on: July 09, 2009, 01:54:52 AM »
Often we say " I have no time" but where our time gone. come & see how you can handle your time.
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Do It Now!
« Reply #17 on: July 09, 2009, 02:11:34 AM »
                                                             Do It Now!

In a class I teach for adults, I recently did the "unpardonable." I gave the class homework! The assignment was to "go to someone you love within the next week and tell them you love them. It has to be someone you have never said those words to before or at least haven't shared those words with for a long time."
Now that doesn't sound like a very tough assignment, until you stop to realized that most of the men in that group were over 35 and were raised in the generation of men that were taught that expressing emotions is not "macho." Showing feelings or crying (heaven forbid!) was just not done. So this was a very threatening assignment for some.
At the beginning of our next class, I asked if someone wanted to share what happened when they told someone they loved them. I fully expected one of the women to volunteer, as was usually the case, but on this evening one of the men raised his hand. He appeared quite moved and a bit shaken.
As he unfolded out of his chair (all 6'2" of him), he began by saying, "Dennis, I was quite angry with you last week when you gave us this assignment. I didn't feel that I had anyone to say those words to, and besides, who were you to tell me to do something that personal? But as I began driving home my conscience started talking to me. It was telling me that I knew exactly who I needed to say 'I love you' to. You see, five years ago, my father and I had a vicious disagreement and really never resolved it since that time. We avoided seeing each other unless we absolutely had to at Christmas or other family gatherings. But even then, we hardly spoke to each other. So, last Tuesday by the time I got home I had convinced myself I was going to tell my father I loved him.
"It's weird, but just making that decision seemed to lift a heavy load off my chest.
"When I got home, I rushed into the house to tell my wife what I was going to do. She was already in bed, but I woke her up anyway. When I told her, she didn't just get out of bed, she catapulted out and hugged my, and for the first time in our married life she saw me cry. We stayed up half the night drinking coffee and talking. It was great!
"The next morning I was up bright and early. I was so excited I could hardly sleep. I got to the office early and accomplished more in two hours than I had the whole day before.
"At 9:00 I called my dad to see if could come over after work. When he answered the phone, I just said, 'Dad, can I come over after work tonight? I have something to tell you.' My dad responded with a grumpy, 'Now what?' I assured him it wouldn't take long, so he finally agreed.
"At 5:30, I was at my parents' house ringing the doorbell, praying that Dad would answer the door. I was afraid if Mom answered that I would chicken out and tell her instead. But as luck would have it, Dad did answer the door.
"I didn't waste any time - I took one step in the door and said, 'Dad, I just came over to tell you that I love you.'
"It was as if a transformation came over my dad. Before my eyes his face softened, the wrinkles seemed to disappear and he began to cry. He reached out and hugged me and said, 'I love you too, son, but I've never been able to say it.'
"It was such a precious moment I didn't want to move. Mom walked by with tears in her eyes. I just waved and blew her a kiss. Dad and I hugged for a moment longer and then I left. I hadn't felt that great in a long time.
"But that's not even my point. Two days after that visit, my dad, who had heart problems, but didn't tell me, had an attack and ended up in the hospital, unconscious. I don't know if he'll make it.
"So my message to all of you in this is: Don't wait to do the things you know need to be done. What if I had waited to tell my dad - maybe I will never get the chance again! Take the time to do what you need to do and do it now!"
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Re: Do It Now!
« Reply #18 on: July 09, 2009, 05:16:06 PM »
Shahin,

Delightful story!  :)

Can your classmates read this story and share a story of their own?

Also, can you upload the text part of "YOU" powerpoint so that other classmates can read it and comment.

-Yousuf
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Re: Mind Map :: Exclusive way to make link with Ideas & thoughts
« Reply #19 on: July 09, 2009, 05:45:28 PM »
Shaharia,

May Allah reward you for starting this topic!

Pls upload mind maps that you have done for your class and get others to share ways in which mind maps can be used to study and focus on life.

-Yousuf.
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Re: Do It Now!
« Reply #20 on: July 09, 2009, 08:34:18 PM »
Respectable Sir, Take my Salam. Your Appreciate gives me more courage. You often set good example  for all & especially for me. With my best knowledge I'll talk with the class.
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Self Development workshop on "YOU"
« Reply #21 on: July 09, 2009, 08:50:46 PM »
All About You!
By
Yousuf M Islam, PhD



Have you ever asked yourself?
   Do I like myself?
   Is there anybody exactly the same as me?
   Is there anything different about me?
   What makes me different?
   Who am I?


What does this Imply?
   You are unique!
   Some qualities make you unique!
   You are important to your Creator!
   He has given you Sight, Hearing, Feelings, Abilities and Intelligence
   He has made you beautiful!
   He has made you different!

However, there is Problem!
   These are all potential abilities …
   Empty brains …
   Huge capacity …
   You can become this beautiful person only if you want to!!!
   The responsibility for developing yourself is your own!


Are you worth Developing?
   Would you like to be different?
   Would you like people to respect you?
   Would you like people to grateful to you?
   What response would you like from your potential
–   Employer?
–   Customers?
–   Father-in-law?
–   
What do you need to do?
   How can you be the best that only you can be?
   How can you develop the tremendous potential that you have been given?
   How can you become the beautiful person that you have been created?
Examine your Mind!
Plot YOUR own future!
What will make me/you happy?
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Re: Mind Map :: Exclusive way to make link with Ideas & thoughts
« Reply #22 on: July 09, 2009, 10:43:07 PM »
Thank you sir,

Obviously i'll write details what we have done regularly in this board.

Pray for me sir.
G. M. Shaharia Azam
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Re: Mind Map :: Exclusive way to make link with Ideas & thoughts
« Reply #23 on: July 10, 2009, 01:18:47 AM »
Thnx Shaharia. Would u kindly explain more about MIND MAP with some example & how u comes to benefited about this exclusive system. Especially I am very hopeful about mind mapping, it's a very useful process to express or explain an IDEA! Hope u do.
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Re: Mind Map :: Exclusive way to make link with Ideas & thoughts
« Reply #24 on: July 10, 2009, 01:53:27 AM »
Dear Shahin,
Of course i'll do. I am just preparing what will i write. Just w8 and see. Hope that you will get everything on Mind Map.
If you want you also can help me. Because i know that you are also a good mind mapper.

lolzzzzzzzzzzzz
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Re: Mind Map :: Exclusive way to make link with Ideas & thoughts
« Reply #25 on: July 10, 2009, 02:04:55 AM »
First thnx for ur comments.  Mind map, ohhh it's amazing!!! I will help you with my best of knowldge on mind map. I love to do mind map hardly. u & everybody always welcome.
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Re: Self Development workshop on "YOU"
« Reply #26 on: July 11, 2009, 12:47:13 PM »
Dear Shahin,

Thank you! Can you upload a mind map of someone who has created a self-development mind map.

By studying it, other students may understand how to develop one for themselves.

-Yousuf
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« Reply #27 on: July 11, 2009, 03:39:40 PM »
Dear Sir,

I would like to join the workshop "YOU", would you plz let me know if there is any further session near future?

I think you are doing great job "strengthenining every individual from inside"!

With best regards

Umme Kulsum

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« Reply #28 on: July 11, 2009, 09:59:48 PM »
Dear Kulsum,

Thank you for your interest. The next round of workshops will InshaAllah be planned for Fall 2009.

However, I can hold one session of the workshop "YOU" for your own students in your class-time this semester. There are three parts:

1. presentation - YOU powerpoint - 20 mins
2. study and overhead presentation of self-development mind map - 12 mins
3. preparation of own self-development mind map - 15 mins
4. presentation or joint development of self-development mind map - 20 mins

Since the whole is more than the time allowed in a class, we can reorganise the activities. Activity 1 and 2 can be managed in a class. The students can then be organised in pairs and asked to combine their mind maps on a poster. They would start the poster in class but finish in their own time. The next class can be used for presentations of the posters. You can manage the next class yourself, or I can come as well.

Pls let me know what you want to do.

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« Reply #29 on: July 12, 2009, 01:49:12 PM »
Dear Sir,

I am so delighted for your proposal.Thank you very much. Yes,we can do it.

My students will love that, and they can do a presentation on it after doing that. I am afraid you might be very busy and i am bothering you. Is it possible to make it on 16th July, thursday at 1:00pm, in 505, Prince Plaza? Or do you have any convenient time?I have classes everyday( sat -thurs)  at 1:00 pm with different batches, you select a day and let me know.

We also can do it for M.A students, their class is from 6:30 to 8:00pm on every Sundays and Wednesdays but number of students are less.

Hope to get your reply. Looking forward to it.

Best regards

Umme Kulsum