Dear all
I think it should be important for everyone...
10 tips of conversation tips:::::
Number 1
Avoid the dreaded “fatal questionsâ€
Most guys don’t realize that asking a woman things like: “Am I your type?â€; “How do you like me so far?â€; and “Do you want to hang out again some time?†will instantly send her running for the hills. Why? Because it shows her that you aren’t the confident man that she wants. Remember that a confident guy knows it doesn’t matter if he’s her “type.†He also knows that she definitely “likes him†and would love to hang out again. Think about it.
Number 2
Don’t try to impress
Women have seen enough to know that guys who try to impress them are just trying to make up for their own insecurities. In fact, women are so tired of this that they will actually “test†you to see if you are one of those guys right away. So, be humble. If there is something about you that she would find impressive (such as a car or a loft), make her dig to find out what it is or discover it naturally -- don’t just blurt it out. She’ll be more impressed by your modesty than anything else.
Number 3
Don’t worry about uncomfortable silences
A sign that you are comfortable with someone is when you can enjoy a good silence with them and not feel that you have to talk the entire time. Next time one of your conversations comes to a lull, relax and let her be the one to spark it up again. It will show her that you’re comfortable with yourself, which will make her feel more comfortable with you.
Number 4
Avoid the “tough topicsâ€
Yes, I’m talking about politics and religion. You’re asking for trouble if you bring up either one of these. Save it!
Number 5
Be playful
Women love guys with whom they can have a good time, and a great way to spark some fun conversation is to ask left-field and playful questions that people don’t usually ask. So, next time you’re on a date, don’t be afraid to ask her what her favorite color is, what kind of ice cream she likes and how many stuffed animals she has. If you rate her answers, you’ll turn this strategy into a fun game: Cookie dough? Yeah, I don’t think this is gonna work out.
Number 6
She’s watching you
Guess what, guys; when you’re talking to your waiter, the cab driver or the bartender, your date is listening to and judging you. Treat everyone you talk to with kindness and respect. She will notice, and that’s why it’s on our list of great date conversation tips.
Number 7
Bring up current gossip
There’s a reason why every woman you know reads celebrity gossip magazines -- they just can’t get enough of the stuff! Don’t be afraid to ask her what she thinks about the latest fashion faux pas at the most recent awards show or what she thinks of the current celebrity-in-rehab news. When you discuss topics that are fun and interesting to her, she’ll automatically see you as fun and interesting.
Number 8
Make eye contact
Not all of our great date conversation tips have to do with speaking or listening, as the intangibles of conversation are equally important. So, be sure to look into her sexy eyes when you talk to her. You should also hold eye contact just a little too long, as this will show her that you are a confident man who knows what he wants.
Number 9
Lead the conversation
If you sense that the conversation is going too far into the “boring zone†(you’re talking about work), don’t be afraid to take charge. Simply say, “Enough about that; let’s talk about something more interesting,†and you’ll be sure to instantly change a boring conversation -- and a boring date -- into an exciting time.
Number 10
Avoid the “interviewâ€
Most guys treat a first date like a job interview, asking the same old boring questions that a woman is sure to have heard 100 times. Avoid asking questions like: “How old are you?â€; “What do you do?â€; and “How many brothers and sisters do you have?†and you’ll separate yourself from every other guy she has met. Following this great date conversation tip surely will lead to more interesting topics.
Thank you
