The real, the wisest and well rounded people you will ever meet likely are those who have kept idea or known misery, pain, defeat and losing something or someone they loved. These people have experienced about agony, pain and ups and downs. By these feelings they also gained appreciation, sensibility and understand the meaning of life. In our family life, service life or social life we face various types of problem. Many of them able to overcome and the rest of become failure but some of them can regain their wish. They develop slowly in course of time.
To speak the truth, when hard times hit and the challenges we face are great we can either let our situation define us, let it destroy us or let it strengthen us. The choice is ours to make. From our early age we taught pain is evil and harmful. Yet, how can we ever deal with real life and true love if we are afraid to feel what we really feel? We need to feel pain, just as we need to feel alive and loved. Pain is meant to wake us up. Though we try to hide our pain. Pain is something to carry willingly because we can only learn how strong we are when being strong is the only choice we have.
One of my supervisor told me that if you have headache you have to realize that you have a head. So, in the worldly life pain is nothing we have to face it with courage and asking who you are.