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WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?

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Mustafizur rRhman:
Clearly, we all once lived with our parents. We, as their children, know the struggles of living with them. The "we never let us do anything" and the "Mom, can I have ten dollars?" moments. Parents can be real a pain in our side, (little did we know that we are bigger pains in theirs). So sure, we butted heads with Mom and Dad once, but what about all the selfless and amazing things they did for you? I sat down and thought of this one day, now that I live on my own. I contemplated the pros and (lack of) cons and here is a list of why you should be more grateful towards your parents:

1. They put up with you attitude, sassiness, harshness, and your plain being a brat for 18 years. In some cases it's even longer than that. (Yes guys, this goes for you, too.)

2. If our parents are anything like mine, then you know how much they sacrificed. Countless weekends for sports, music, birthday parties, and other functions. Not only did they give up their time, which is precious, but they gave up a lot of money; on clothes, movies, make up, the best shoes, or the best of everything.

3. There were nights we ate out, or ate left-overs; but most of the time my parents cooked dinner every night. As most college kids know, there is no cooking like home cooking. There is no "Mom, what are we doing for dinner?" or "Dad, are you going to cook ribs because they are my favorite?" Sometimes, I'm plain lucky if I remember to take stuff out of the freezer to cook. Mom and Dad never forgot stuff like that, and they still send me home with frozen leftovers, and so much more.

4. They were, and still are, always there for me when I needed them most. Friends will come and go, but my mom and dad will never sway. They are my rocks, my stronghold, the two people who I can count on most in this world.

5. Finally, always be thankful for your parents because no one here on this earth will ever love you as much as they do, nor will anyone love you the same. Sure you will have your spouse, but there is no comparison to loving a child.

My list could probably go on further, because I was blessed with amazing parents, who did so much for me and my brother. Countless volleyball games, even times when we had to fly across the bd to get to them. Countless weekends just to watch practices, and so on. So next time we see our parents, especially because Thanksgiving is this week, tell them how much they mean to you. As I said, time is so precious, and life comes and goes everyday, make that your priority.
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Mustafizur rRhman:
I want to say, "why shouldn't we be grateful to our parents ?" and "except parents to whom we should be grateful ?" as parents are the ultimate role model for children. One of the best blessing in the world is to have parents.
We can say parents do lot of things for us, they sacrifice, they work very hard etc. But we never know the love of a parent till we become parents ourselves. Everybody is grateful to their parents, from my perspective I'm ready to sacrifice anything for my father and mother. Till now I have never found and I will never find such well wisher like my parents. Actually nothing can be replaced with parent's love, and no one can be compared with parents. To be successful parents are the first motivator for everyone. No other person or outside force has a greater influence on a child than the parent. The level of love for our parents is higher than anything. Still I am afraid of doing something which my father doesn't want me to do. Still if my mother doesn't suggest any dress, I hesitate to buy or became confused to wear any. I am dependent on my parents completely. Time will change, everything will be changed, every relation will be changed but relation between parents and children, parent's love for their children and children's love for their parents will never change.
People who do not have their parents alive, they are unlucky. But people who are blessed with parents and don't give proper respect and hurt their parents, they are pitiful among all. Biggest fear of my life is losing my parents. As everyone has to die, I pray to my God that, I may die before my parents so that I don't have to bear the pain of losing them.

Mustafizur rRhman:
Parents are most precious gift for us from almighty God. Parents play important role in our mental, physical, social, financial and career development. In every steps of our life, we can find our parents beside us. From my opinion, my parents are my God. I can do anything for them. I’m sure they are sacrifice their life happily because of me so, no doubt I’ll also sacrifice my life for them. Even I’ll be happy to think that, it’s my good luck that I sacrifice my life for them who gives me birth. Every month I’ll give them half of my salary for doing shopping. They expense their every month’s salary for comfort my life so I also have need to do something for them in future and in present. My parents always give priority on what I need. They upbringing me from my childhood with carefully so obviously I also take care them with my hand at their old age (Though I believe that, my Mom-Dad always young for me). I promised them that I never call them old. I think it’s a big sin to called parents old, it’s mentally weak them. Which people always try to strength my mind then how can I do this. After gain my job I can do for them what’s they need. Now they are expense their hard working money for my happiness after gaining job I’ll try my best to comfort their life. On the other hand, my parents have a hobby after completing my graduation they both are going out to travelling whole world. Therefore, I helped them to fulfill their hobby because now they are fulfilling my hobby. Lastly, I want to say that I love my parents and I respect them. I can tolerate anything but not my parents insult or pain. I wish for their long live.
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Mustafizur rRhman:
Everyone should be grateful to their parents.Parents are the root by whom we came in the world.Every children growing up by the parent's love.Parents sacrifice their happiness for us.They earn money and spend for us.In different festival they spend whole money for us even they keep good and testy food for us and they eat rest.Only parents forgive our all crime.They tolerate our bad behavior. The people who doesn't has parents is the most unlucky person in the world.Parents can feel our pain and they also hurt in our pain.No one can love selflessly like our parents. Although we should be grateful to our parents cause they give us birth and we enjoy the beautiful world.
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Mustafizur rRhman:
Parents are the ultimate role model for children One of the best blessing in the world is to have parents. They want nothing in return except our better future. Teacher give us academic education but our parents make us real parson by putting moral values, religious values into us and making us fit to copy up with the world.
To me Patents are the most important factor in children's lives. Whether parents are with us two hours a day or twelve, they will always be special to us. It is true, parents are the first teachers in our lives. they as living examples, who influences us little by little,step ,they teach us the value of our life as well as the value of other lives.
Not every parents are the same as described above . But still we should be grateful to them because without them we would not exist in this beautiful would. After almighty Allah , we should be most grateful to our parents and love them than anything else in the world. I pray to my God that, I may die before my parents so that i don't have to bear the pain of losing them.
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