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Why are some people vindictive?
ABU SAYED:
There are differents types people in our world,those have different character and whise is vary person to person .some people are vindictive and they are interested defamation of others .At a time they pick up thier self interest by hampering value others.
shibli:
"Everyone thinks of changing something, but very few think of changing themselves."
"If you know about all the world without knowing yourself, it would be simple waste of energy and time."
"You need not blow your own trumpet if you are skilled; you will get noticed easily if you are genuine and able. "
"YOU have got YOUR own mirror but YOU have never dared to watch YOUR own image in it."
Faiyaz:
Sir, I do too feel that one should not be madly driven for vengence... But, I'm sorry, I personally think that one could be (and on extreme conditions, should be) vindictive, if he's affected badly by a person or a group of people.
I had faced this type of problem in my juvenile days of school. People tend to think your forgiving gesture your weakness, and thus they keep 'bullying' you... More than that, excessive "good'ol" thing might get yourself lowered by your ownself, that causes major mental pressure.
Nonetheless, it's also permitted in our religion, but not exceeding the limit, the victim had faced...
Last but not the least, My great grandpa used to say one quote of G.B Shaw regarding these sort of things, that I wanna share, "It's too bad to be too good..."
shibli:
"Power is temporary." Former President B. Chowdhury
shibli:
Absolute power leads to absolute corruption . . .
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