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Title: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:54:10 PM
Clearly, we all once lived with our parents. We, as their children, know the struggles of living with them. The "we never let us do anything" and the "Mom, can I have ten dollars?" moments. Parents can be real a pain in our side, (little did we know that we are bigger pains in theirs). So sure, we butted heads with Mom and Dad once, but what about all the selfless and amazing things they did for you? I sat down and thought of this one day, now that I live on my own. I contemplated the pros and (lack of) cons and here is a list of why you should be more grateful towards your parents:

1. They put up with you attitude, sassiness, harshness, and your plain being a brat for 18 years. In some cases it's even longer than that. (Yes guys, this goes for you, too.)

2. If our parents are anything like mine, then you know how much they sacrificed. Countless weekends for sports, music, birthday parties, and other functions. Not only did they give up their time, which is precious, but they gave up a lot of money; on clothes, movies, make up, the best shoes, or the best of everything.

3. There were nights we ate out, or ate left-overs; but most of the time my parents cooked dinner every night. As most college kids know, there is no cooking like home cooking. There is no "Mom, what are we doing for dinner?" or "Dad, are you going to cook ribs because they are my favorite?" Sometimes, I'm plain lucky if I remember to take stuff out of the freezer to cook. Mom and Dad never forgot stuff like that, and they still send me home with frozen leftovers, and so much more.

4. They were, and still are, always there for me when I needed them most. Friends will come and go, but my mom and dad will never sway. They are my rocks, my stronghold, the two people who I can count on most in this world.

5. Finally, always be thankful for your parents because no one here on this earth will ever love you as much as they do, nor will anyone love you the same. Sure you will have your spouse, but there is no comparison to loving a child.

My list could probably go on further, because I was blessed with amazing parents, who did so much for me and my brother. Countless volleyball games, even times when we had to fly across the bd to get to them. Countless weekends just to watch practices, and so on. So next time we see our parents, especially because Thanksgiving is this week, tell them how much they mean to you. As I said, time is so precious, and life comes and goes everyday, make that your priority.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:54:37 PM
I want to say, "why shouldn't we be grateful to our parents ?" and "except parents to whom we should be grateful ?" as parents are the ultimate role model for children. One of the best blessing in the world is to have parents.
We can say parents do lot of things for us, they sacrifice, they work very hard etc. But we never know the love of a parent till we become parents ourselves. Everybody is grateful to their parents, from my perspective I'm ready to sacrifice anything for my father and mother. Till now I have never found and I will never find such well wisher like my parents. Actually nothing can be replaced with parent's love, and no one can be compared with parents. To be successful parents are the first motivator for everyone. No other person or outside force has a greater influence on a child than the parent. The level of love for our parents is higher than anything. Still I am afraid of doing something which my father doesn't want me to do. Still if my mother doesn't suggest any dress, I hesitate to buy or became confused to wear any. I am dependent on my parents completely. Time will change, everything will be changed, every relation will be changed but relation between parents and children, parent's love for their children and children's love for their parents will never change.
People who do not have their parents alive, they are unlucky. But people who are blessed with parents and don't give proper respect and hurt their parents, they are pitiful among all. Biggest fear of my life is losing my parents. As everyone has to die, I pray to my God that, I may die before my parents so that I don't have to bear the pain of losing them.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:55:00 PM
Parents are most precious gift for us from almighty God. Parents play important role in our mental, physical, social, financial and career development. In every steps of our life, we can find our parents beside us. From my opinion, my parents are my God. I can do anything for them. I’m sure they are sacrifice their life happily because of me so, no doubt I’ll also sacrifice my life for them. Even I’ll be happy to think that, it’s my good luck that I sacrifice my life for them who gives me birth. Every month I’ll give them half of my salary for doing shopping. They expense their every month’s salary for comfort my life so I also have need to do something for them in future and in present. My parents always give priority on what I need. They upbringing me from my childhood with carefully so obviously I also take care them with my hand at their old age (Though I believe that, my Mom-Dad always young for me). I promised them that I never call them old. I think it’s a big sin to called parents old, it’s mentally weak them. Which people always try to strength my mind then how can I do this. After gain my job I can do for them what’s they need. Now they are expense their hard working money for my happiness after gaining job I’ll try my best to comfort their life. On the other hand, my parents have a hobby after completing my graduation they both are going out to travelling whole world. Therefore, I helped them to fulfill their hobby because now they are fulfilling my hobby. Lastly, I want to say that I love my parents and I respect them. I can tolerate anything but not my parents insult or pain. I wish for their long live.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:56:01 PM
Everyone should be grateful to their parents.Parents are the root by whom we came in the world.Every children growing up by the parent's love.Parents sacrifice their happiness for us.They earn money and spend for us.In different festival they spend whole money for us even they keep good and testy food for us and they eat rest.Only parents forgive our all crime.They tolerate our bad behavior. The people who doesn't has parents is the most unlucky person in the world.Parents can feel our pain and they also hurt in our pain.No one can love selflessly like our parents. Although we should be grateful to our parents cause they give us birth and we enjoy the beautiful world.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:56:26 PM
Parents are the ultimate role model for children One of the best blessing in the world is to have parents. They want nothing in return except our better future. Teacher give us academic education but our parents make us real parson by putting moral values, religious values into us and making us fit to copy up with the world.
To me Patents are the most important factor in children's lives. Whether parents are with us two hours a day or twelve, they will always be special to us. It is true, parents are the first teachers in our lives. they as living examples, who influences us little by little,step ,they teach us the value of our life as well as the value of other lives.
Not every parents are the same as described above . But still we should be grateful to them because without them we would not exist in this beautiful would. After almighty Allah , we should be most grateful to our parents and love them than anything else in the world. I pray to my God that, I may die before my parents so that i don't have to bear the pain of losing them.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:56:45 PM
Parents are the life, love, feeling & the second source of pray. In Islam a very well known speech is “If your parents are happy on you, then Allah will also be happy on you”. They are the way to come us in this beautiful world. They can sacrifice their whole life only for their children. I think parents make our every step in our life. They are the only person who can do everything for us without any expectation. They never expect any gift from us, our smile & happiness is their main gift. Our smile is their smile & our tears are their tears. They are the first teacher of home school. Without them institutional education is also impossible because they teach us how to talk, how to walk, how to eat, even how to open a book. Without these it would not possible to go to school. Without them life is nothing but a desert. I can realize it now because recently i have lost my father forever. Without him I can’t take my any decision properly. His death makes my life like a storm, I’m feeling alone & ruthless. So, I want to say in our every breath we r thankful ( RINI ) on our parents not they are. But there is no way at least in world to return their sacrifice. There is only way to make them happy & that is show respect & love on them & make ourselves as a perfect human being. At last I want to say parents are like the sunlight of our life .We can’t think our life without sun because without sun our life will be remain in dark & nobody wants a dark life .so we should be always grateful to our parents……
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:57:23 PM
Real love is parents love.We must grateful to our parents because the day we were born unable to survive our self. When we are come to age then we need mental,financial,educational,medical etc help.We are give us a great childhood from parents.Parents help us a lot and teach us many good things that we might not learn at schools.Parents are good take care of us and all support us.Parents are important part of all human being.I pray that I am able to do justice to my parents at least in this lifetime.They are always support us and stay with us all every moment.Overall,Parents are not selfish.We should respect parents and really very grateful to parents.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:57:44 PM
We should be grateful to our parents for their unconditional love.I can still remember those days when I was a little girl and mother was suffering from a serious disease. But my parents hide this from me only for my happiness because they didn't want to see me crying and pretending of everything is alright infront of me was very tough for them. That time they never stopped to take good care of me and I was so stupid that I never felt mother was sick.When mother was admitted in a hospital father took a very good care of me. He handled both side very carefully.He cooked for me & dropped me regularly in my school.He didn't give me the chance to miss mother. He took care of my every little single needs. Now I can understand parents can do anything for their children though it's tough for them or not. They can sacrifice anything for us.Sometimes we do bad behaviour with them.We show them our arrogancy but never think that it may hurt them. I also did this with my parents. Even I was so arrogant that I never heard their words,I put them into trouble infront of my relatives so many times because I was kinda unsocial. But my parents never gave up on me.They scold me ,they punished me when I do wrong but they never stop to loving me.They were beside me,they are with me & they will always be.Parents never leave us alone when we are in trouble. They teach us the value of relation, they show us the reality of life, they teach us to being kind.I believe that in the world there is no one who can love more than our parents.May God bless all the children with this precious gift.In the world May all the children never lost their parents at early age. May God keep all the parents in the world happy and safe.

Thank you
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:58:13 PM
Whether you are grateful or not depends on your social customs.
I'm grateful to my parents for everything they've done for me. like as my parents gave birth to me. Brought me up. Education me. Didn't abuse me. Gave me what i consider to be pretty good examples of how to live. And very much shaped the person i am.

They are the only two people who I love from the bottom of my heart even though they scolded me, punished me and grounder me every now and then. My parents always encouraged me to get education. And it is only now starting to plain clear why it is important. Another thing i learned, be independent and support yourself. When i succeed in something or plan to do some actions,I share my ideas and feeling with my parents, because I'm sure that envy is irrelevant in our relationship. If i hesitate whether to do something or not my parents will always give a valuable advice on how to act in one or another situation. Parental house is maybe the place in the world,where i can feel my self free and act naturally because i know that my dearest and nearest will never blame or criticize me for my behaviors, words and weaknesses

Yes,its right I'm grateful.For the guidance that always was there. I don't means to sound arrogant but i got very lucky with my parents. To the extent that i like myself and i am happy with myself grateful for them giving me such a wonderful life.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:58:43 PM
This is not to say that we can blame our mom and dad for our current crappy situation, if that is the situation we feel we are in, because, as human beings, we have a choice. We always have a choice. Parents are supposed to teach you which choices you are supposed to make and which ones you should avoid making. That's what parenting comes down to; yet, not only do those who make poor choices continuously opt to make them, the bad choice-making also becomes hereditary.
I think some of think is very important for us....

1.For gives a great childhood.
2.proper attention.
3. monEy support.
4.Love
5.Affection
6.proper care
7.helpful
8.Respect

without these,we are always greatfull to our parents for many many reason.....
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:59:03 PM
I am truly blessed to be the daughter of my parents. My parents gave me life .They raised me from a kid to an adult that i am today .It takes a lot of patience ,sacrifice and love to do so much for another person. Parenting is the toughest job in the world ,but also the most fulfilling .we the children should be thankful to our parents. What we are today, we owe it to our parents. They taught us what it is to love and to be loved. It is through them, we, as adults, learned to love our families.
Our parents never made us feel, we were a liability. They gave us the best possible education. We may not have reached up to their expectations. However, they accepted us for what we made ourselves into.
There is nothing on this planet which makes me happy but the thought that I have such amazing parents. It always bring a smile on my face. I cannot explain how I feel about them. I won't say we never have clashes. We do but we spend more quality time and this relationship that we share, i really can not explain. I have been through a lot in life, so have they but we have always been there for one another, giving one another a tight hug in our “rainy days”. I wish to always have them as parents. The thought that one day we wont be together, kills me already. So yes, I am grateful to my parents for the person I am, today.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:59:22 PM
We should be grateful to our parents because parents are only the people who never leave us. They are the greatest creation of almighty because parents sacrifice many entertainments&lots of happiness of their life only for our happiness. Parents try to do what is best for us and want to make us feeling the best environment for our brightest future.Even an honest father/mother can be the worst for the prosperity of his/her children.The opposite situation also happens.Every religion learns us to be grateful to our parents.God gives the higher importance about obeying them.
Overall we get a great childhood,enough attention,financial support,love,clear guidance and good advice from our parents.
For our parents,we realize the natural,unconditional and divine love.The reasons why we should be grateful to our parents are countless.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 01:59:42 PM
"PARENTS" the word is too short but the word is the most important part of our life.children didn't ask to be born and they didn't ask for the life they had.It just happened.One reason that we should be grateful for our parents is the fact that they are our support network.Most parents want their children to be successful in going out on their own and making their own way.Most parents have a goal of being a support to us if we get into a bind or need help.this is a very good reason to be grateful for our parents.Because of them we can see and get a beautiful world and its not the end.They maintaining us .They are always supportive of our undecided dcisions.They always make we feel loved,whether it is said or not they taught us how to love.Education is important and our parents will always push us to be the best.If our parents are anything like mine,then we know how much they sacrificed.countless ,weekends,for sports,for music,birthday parties and other functions.not only did they give up their time,which is precious,but they gave up a lot of money,on clothes,movies,make up,the best shoes,the best of everything.All time they encourages us.All parents are super parents.we should always be grateful for them.they are the power of our life.Love you.Love you a lot my dear parents.you are the best.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:13:36 PM
Parents should be friends. We should be able to talk with them and share.As a parents, the most important thing that you can ever teach your child is how to get along with you.As my parents, the both of you have done just this and so much more.Thank you for your love. The most overwhelming key to a child's success is positive involvement of parents. How can I ever thank you both,my parents who have done everything for me,including sacrificing.
I had the best parents in the world and they made up for all these things. I had awesome childhood because I had awesome parents.
In my opinion, I think parents should keep their kids and just try very hard to properly care for them,just like any other parents must do.
I know,I am lucky to have parents who love me to bits and love each other endlessly. Thanks for being the perfect parents.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:14:00 PM
Parents love me more than I can ever think. They always make me feel loved, whether it is said or not. It's hard to express how much they love me. My mom always says "when you are a parent, you will understand." Everyday they worry about me and want to make me the best version of myself. They give me money when I am really struggling.They are teaching me to be responsible, kind. They always give me advice when I needed it. Even if I didn’t take it. They let me grow and fly on my own. Even though I still really don’t have my life together, they have given me confidence to push forward, and love that surrounds you. I am blessed. And I don’t say it enough, for the things on and off this list, but grateful. And I love them.They always make me feel safe, and secure in my home life is invaluable.That’s an environment our parents make for us. Some people may say that parents are not doing out of duty.Conceiving me and deciding to raise me is a conscious decision which they know, will bring them happiness. But being born in my family has never been my choice. I'm grateful. My parents gave birth to me. Brought me up. Educated me. Gave me what I consider to be pretty good examples of how to live. And very much shaped the person I am.To the extent that I like myself and am happy with myself, I'm grateful for them giving me that.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:14:22 PM
Although you may have had differences in the past with them, there are some very specific reasons to be grateful for your parents. Although all situations with parents are different, most parents will fall into these reasons that you should appreciate them.

One reason that you should be grateful for your parents is the fact that they are your support network. Most parents want their children to be successful in going out on their own and making their own way. However, they are usually glad to catch their children if they begin to falter. Most parents have a goal of being a support to their children if they get into a bind or need help. This is a very good reason to be grateful for your parents.

They are your biggest cheerleaders. Most of the time, your parents can be counted on to be in your corner and are your biggest cheerleaders. This is a very good reason to be grateful for your parents. You always have someone rooting you on and cheering for you. It is good to know that you have someone who is always proud of you and thinks you can do anything you set your mind on. Additionally, you should be grateful for your parents because they are so proud of you. Their pride is what makes them your biggest cheerleaders.

They love your children. One thing I love about my parents is that they love my children. They think they are wonderful and I can always count on them to be happy with me when my children are doing well and making good choices in their lives. I can count on them to share my joys in parenting and also any worries that I may have.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:14:49 PM
Parents are the most precious gift from God. From them we came to this world. Why we should grateful to our parents?. Words cannot expressed it for them we are now exist in this world. Not only they born us. And their love for us is the most important thing in this world. Only our parents love us without any reason. From childhood they take care us until their death. Nobody can do this for us what our parents done. Even they sacrifice their happiness for us. For our happiness they work hard only for our smile this is the only reason for any parents. They only want that anyhow our children smile and be happy for this they can do everything. Words cannot be expressed how much they love us and care for us. But sometimes we cannot understand that many ways we hurt them but they never get angry. What they do its always good for us but we don't understand it. There are many reasons why we have to grateful to our parents. So we should never hurt them. And when they get old we have to take care like they did it when we were child.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:15:36 PM
We should be grateful to our parents because without them we couldn't born. And we can't see the beautiful world. Without them it would be harder to learn that what is right or wrong on our own. They are always supportive of our undecided decisions. They are honest. They always make us feel loved, whether it is said or not. Education is important and our parents always pushed us to be the best. We can reach our goal because they support us. For these reasons we should be grateful to our parents.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:15:56 PM
We should obey our parents and show them proper respect. Our patents love us dearly, and are always prepared to sacrifice their enjoyments, comforts nay their lives for our sake.

They supplied us with food and clothing and took every care of us when we were young and helpless. They took care of us when we were very young. Hence, we should always feel grateful to them and love them, and be ready to do all we can for their happiness.

The responsibilities of parents do not end with simply supplying their children with food and clothing. Their chief duty is to educate them and train up their minds properly with a view to form their character. They watch with keen interest the progress that their children make in then studies.

Such being the solicitude of the parents for their children’s welfare, strict obedience to them is the least that can be expected from children.

Napoleon Bonaparte used to say ‘First obey and then command’.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:16:31 PM
Parents is the best gift for us from our creator. We have seen this earth's face, air,light & everything only for our parents. We can't imagine our existence without our parents.They sacrifice many things and suffer more pain to bring us in this world. They do everything for us from our birthday before our establishment.When we would sick they couldn't sleep at night before our cure.They spend their whole life for creating our good future and always try to complete our al wishes. They give everything what we want to them and try to give us which will be the best for us. If they are unable to give anything then they try to give at any how. Always they give us better food, cloths, treatment. They have unconditional love, affection, kindness,sympathy to us and do everything selflessly.Parents are the only person for us in this world who are doing everything for us without any interest, so we must be grateful to our parents. We should remember to give thanks to our parents for bringing into this world and for always loving us unconditionally ,If we spent our entire lives caring and providing for our parents, it would never be enough to repay their kindness unconditional love and attention bestowed upon us throughout our lives.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:18:04 PM
Parents is the best gift for us from our creator. We have seen this earth's face, air,light & everything only for our parents. We can't imagine our existence without our parents.They sacrifice many things and suffer more pain to bring us in this world. They do everything for us from our birthday before our establishment.When we would sick they couldn't sleep at night before our cure.They spend their whole life for creating our good future and always try to complete our al wishes. They give everything what we want to them and try to give us which will be the best for us. If they are unable to give anything then they try to give at any how. Always they give us better food, cloths, treatment. They have unconditional love, affection, kindness,sympathy to us and do everything selflessly.Parents are the only person for us in this world who are doing everything for us without any interest, so we must be grateful to our parents. We should remember to give thanks to our parents for bringing into this world and for always loving us unconditionally ,If we spent our entire lives caring and providing for our parents, it would never be enough to repay their kindness unconditional love and attention bestowed upon us throughout our lives.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:18:45 PM
parents are the most important part of our life.They always take care for us.They have brought up me from childhood to still now.They always support us so that we can reach the apex point of success.we can not come on the earth without parents.Every religion says that to respect your parents first.If we respect our parents,The god will help us.They spend their valuable time for us.They always give me courage so that i can not deviate from my destination.Parents are our real hero because they advise me to follow the right path of our life.If they do not give me financial and other supports,i will never fulfill my dreams.No one loves me as much as they do.Their love immortal for my life.Only parents are real for everyone because their love and affection care never compare with other's person.They never do any harm work for us so that i am very grateful to my patents.They have taught us what is good or bad for us.They are our first home tutor.They have sacrificed their happiness for the sake of our good future.They try to happy for us at any cost.They do everything for the betterment of our life.When i feel any frustration they give me courage to overcome this awkward situation.Their love for us never end .In the earth everyone can be our enemy but parents always support us.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:19:04 PM
Every child of this world must have some gratefulness for their parents.Our parents bring us in this world.Because of them i can see this beautiful world what gifted by Allah for mankind.Without them i will not be able to see all of this.From birth to death they always love us same,but not like what others love.I can't think a moment without them.Sometimes i think when they will die then how will i survive without them.My Parents is My True Love which love can be never broken.I always pray to Allah to give them long live so that i can provide them a beautiful life without crisis.I always try to respect them what they deserve from me.I want to do something special which can bring smile on their face.From my childhood they always fullfil my wish and never left my one wish to go away.I know i will cannot be so caring to them but i'll try my best to Bring smile on their face.They always try to give the best thing what i want.i can't express the way how they love me.i'm really speechless.I really Love them a lot.Till the end of time i want to be with them.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:19:34 PM
Every child of this world must have some gratefulness for their parents.Our parents bring us in this world.Because of them i can see this beautiful world what gifted by Allah for mankind.Without them i will not be able to see all of this.From birth to death they always love us same,but not like what others love.I can't think a moment without them.Sometimes i think when they will die then how will i survive without them.My Parents is My True Love which love can be never broken.I always pray to Allah to give them long live so that i can provide them a beautiful life without crisis.I always try to respect them what they deserve from me.I want to do something special which can bring smile on their face.From my childhood they always fullfil my wish and never left my one wish to go away.I know i will cannot be so caring to them but i'll try my best to Bring smile on their face.They always try to give the best thing what i want.i can't express the way how they love me.i'm really speechless.I really Love them a lot.Till the end of time i want to be with them.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:19:59 PM
There are nothing like parents in the world. They guide me and counselling me to any kind of situation in my life.
it's hard to know what is the "right" and "wrong" thing to do. Growing up, my parents always told me the rationale of why something I said or did was "right" or "wrong". Trying to figure out what is the "right" thing to do would be a trial and error of embarrassment and ridicule without the moral code of my parents. They are always supportive of my undecided decisions. They are honest even when I don't want them to be. They love me more than we can ever think. They may be obnoxious about it but that's because it's hard to express how much they love me. Everyday they worry about us and want to make me the best version of myself. That's love folks and I'm thankful I'm loved. They taught us HOW to love. Education is important and my parents will always push me to be the best. For this reason we should be grateful to our parents.




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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:20:37 PM
Our parents have given us this beautiful life. They’ve stayed up endless nights taking care of us, they send us to school so we can learn and become educated, they give us food to eat and a home to stay in. The list of things our parents of have for us and will continue to do for us are endless.

I am grateful to my parents because they have given all the love and care and brought me up in this beautiful surrounding of Sat sang, always helping me to differentiate between what is right n what is wrong. They have taught me to respect my elders and love the young ones. They sent me to a good school where I can be educated to become a responsible person. They have taught me good manners, value of love, friendship, honesty, truthfulness, money etc. And I have Allah with me who always show me the right path in life. I always pray to Allah that, 'Oh Dear Allah, Give the love and shelter of parents to all the children of the world'
I'm grateful for my parents because they help me in my studies they take care of me and they show me a way to reach my goal. They love me and help me succeed in anything difficult or easy. This is why I'm grateful for my parents and lots of respect to them.
Lastly, I would conclude that we should always obey our parents and honor them in every aspect of our life.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:21:29 PM
No doubt parents are the most precious gift we have ever had from the almighty. Our existence is completely meaningless without their supports and collaboration.They sacrifice their whole life to assure our bright future and make us happy. If a person has parent's shed on his or her head he or she is the luckiest person in this earth.We can't even imagine our entity without them as we need them every sphere of our life.
we should think of our parents before we take any decision and we should take their advice because they are something which always want us to be happy. So we should grateful to our parents.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:21:57 PM
We must be grateful to our parents for many reason such as
1. A Great Childhood.
Great childhoods are not hard to create. Kids don't need a toy chest full of toys or to travel all over the world. Kids have their imaginations and it's usually enough. What they do need is a household that encourages curiosity and parents who spend time helping their children develop.
2. Just Enough Attention.
I'm not a parent myself, but I worked with a lot of children in the past and also spent some time with their parents. Some parents smother their children, making their children reliant upon them and not the smallest bit independent.
3. Financial Support.
Parents should support their children until they can support themselves. Not even until the can barely support themselves, but until they can comfortably support themselves
4. Love.
Children need love growing up. It's not about making them feel special or coddling them. It's about teaching them the importance of love, teaching them how interpersonal relationships are supposed to work.
5. Clear Guidance And Good Advice.
If your parents didn't guide you or give you good advice growing up, then they didn't do the best job they could. There is no excuse for not talking to your children and having a trusting relationship.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:22:26 PM
Parents are very precious to me.After being grateful to Allah,my first and foremost priority is my parents in this earth.when I'am having the worst day l can count on the fact that a short drive home is a solid fix.They're more than happy to have me and are always there to offer support or advise whenever I need it.They've given me a home and a place to feel safe.i'll never be able to repay my parents for how much they've done for me.At the end of the day,no matter the circumstance,I'm continually their number one priority. I'll always be grateful for all their hard work that helped get me to where I'm today. They've taught me how to be responsible.i was consistently taught to have good manners,to value a dollar and always treat others the way i wanted to be treated.They play the role as both authority figures and my best friends.My mother is perpetually there to listen to my rants or gossip with me and my father is always there to goof around with.
Truly they're blessings of my life.without them I'm nothing at all.Being distanced from them in order to complete my study has helped bring us closer.I began to understand what they've been through and how to relate to them.I know that I'll always be accepted by them no matter what in life,there can be some harsh criticism that's hard to handle but they'll continually trust my judgment and decisions and always offer me honest feedback.They will always be my number one fans.I love them in return of my life.
A thousand times thank both of you for all of this and more.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:22:50 PM
A child who is allowed to be disrespectful to his parents will not have true respect for anyone "
Billy Graham
From this line we can realize that the importance of parents in our life.parents is God's most precious gift to us.They give us life on earth."The most beautiful thing in this world is to see your parents smiling, and knowing that you are the reason behind that smile." I want to be that reason.For all that our parents do for us there is no way of repaying them.Though they donot expect anything but love from us.Our parents spend their entire lives caring for us without asking for anything in return. They helped us take our first mouthful,our first step,and even say our first word.The purity of one's intention from the heart is important to conduct whatever we are able to do for our parents. The rest is in Allah's hands.I have ideal parents. I am very grateful to almighty for giving me a such kind of parents.They always take care of me.They always inspire to prosper in life.They teach me from childhood to be a real human being.I have learned from them many things such as
honesty,determination,punctuality,loyality,caring etc.I can't live a single moment without them.When I fall in danger,they are beside by me.They tought me how to overcome from bad times.Not only they are my parents, but also they are my guide,philosopher,teacher and friend. They treat to me as a friend.They are also face reader because they can understand my untold mental condition.They are the most nearest person in my life.I have to grateful to them because :
They are always supportive of my undecided decisions.
They always make me feel loved whether it is said or not.
They taught me how to love.They teach me to prosper in life.They feed me for growing up.
They sacrificed their own happiness, just so that I could be happy.
They love me endless.They are very concern about my career,my health, my security, my prosperity.They always pray for me to Allah.May be this is the best unconditional love of this world.
I believe strongly when the world closed its doors for me,they both opened their arms for me.When people shut their ears for me,they both opened their hearts for me.I can't repay for what they have done for me.
From the realization parent's love Henry ward Beecher said that"" We never know the love of a parents till we become parents ourselves"".
we should more caring to our parents every single time specially aged period.we have to do our duty properly to our honorable parents.we should love our parents from hearty.
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Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:23:15 PM
They are always there to offer support or advice whenever I need it. I will never be able to repay my parents for how much they’ve done for me. At the end of the day, no matter the circumstance, I was continuously their number one priority. I’ll always be thankful for all their hard work that helped get me to where I am today.I couldn’t have asked for two better role models growing up. I was consistently taught to have good manners, to value a money, and always treat others the way I wanted to be treated. Even on the days where I was in trouble or in the middle of a punishment, I knew at the end of the day that my parents would be there for me for the good times or the bad. My mother is perpetually there to listen to my rants or gossip with me, and my father is always there to goof around with.

Because I know they would be happy to take me on a much-needed trip to the grocery store (and maybe the mall if father being generous…). It’s also a nice time to be able to get off campus to have a nice dinner and spend quality time with each other. I’ll be honest, the thought of being away from my parents while I was away at college was scary in the beginning. But the distance has made our relationships so much stronger. Through my independence, I have matured and connected with them on a deeper level. I began to understand what they’ve been through and how to relate to them. I know that I’ll always be accepted by them no matter what. In life, there can be some harsh criticism that’s hard to handle but I know they’ll continually trust my judgment and decisions and always offer me honest feedback. I’ve been let down by many people throughout my life, but my parents have never been one of them. They are the first people I call when I have good news, and also when I need to vent about something when I’m upset. And even if I fail, they’re always there to cheer me on.

There is no way to deny their importance in our life. So everybody should be grateful to their parents. I always pray to Allah for keeping them alive many years with happiness and prosperity. I love my parents a lot.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:23:53 PM
We have come on the earth just for our parents. It really very difficult to have responsibility of a child, but our parents do it. They take care us so much. Especially my mother is very lovely one. She loves me so much and she does care me. My father does fulfill all of my wishes. Without exception , they don't t tell me, no for anything. Every parents stay beside their child in any problems. In the world, they are our most close person. There are lots of parents in the world who sacrifice their wishes, even lives for their children.so , we all should be very grateful to our parents.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:24:18 PM
Clearly, we all once lived with our parents. We, as their children, know the struggles of living with them. The "you never let me do anything" and the "Mom, can I have ten dollars?" moments. Parents can be real a pain in your side. So sure, you butted heads with Mom and Dad once, but what about all the selfless and amazing things they did for you? I sat down and thought of this one day, now that I live on my own. I contemplated the pros and cons and here is a list of why you should be more grateful towards your parents:If your parents are anything like mine, then you know how much they sacrificed. Countless weekends for sports, music, birthday parties, and other functions. Not only did they give up their time, which is precious, but they gave up a lot of money; on clothes, movies, make up, the best shoes, or the best of everything.There were nights we ate out, or ate left-overs; but most of the time my parents cooked dinner every night. As most college kids know, there is no cooking like home cooking. There is no "Mom, what are we doing for dinner?" or "Dad, are you going to cook ribs because they are my favorite?" Sometimes, I'm plain lucky if I remember to take stuff out of the freezer to cook. Mom and Dad never forgot stuff like that, and they still send me home with frozen leftovers, and so much more.They were, and still are, always there for me when I needed them most. Friends will come and go, but my mom and dad will never sway. They are my rocks, my stronghold, the two people who I can count on most in this world.
Finally, always be thankful for your parents because no one here on this earth will ever love you as much as they do, nor will anyone love you the same. Sure you will have your spouse, but there is no comparison to loving a child.
My list could probably go on further, because I was blessed with amazing parents, who did so much for me and my sister. Countless weekends just to watch practices, and so on. So next time you see your parents, especially because Thanksgiving is this week, tell them how much they mean to you. As I said, time is so precious, and life comes and goes everyday, make that your priority.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:24:46 PM
Parents are the most precious gift to us, gifted by God. They are the blessings of God. We come to this world through our parents. When we were helpless, they loved us unconditionally and raised us. They sacrifice their youth, their time, their everything they have for us and work for the welfare for our life. It was impossible for us to be grown up on our own when we were kids. On that time they spread the shade of blessings on us. We can not pay off their debt. It is impossible to do so. We should be thankful to our parents, we should always be grateful to them.
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Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:25:23 PM
Parents are the best gift for our life. when we were child , they took care of us. They are our best friend. I am thankful of my parents because they support me. They love me without any benefits. They sacrifice any thing for us. They are our unselfish friend of our life. They want we are shine in life. They are our only friend that they support for our bad time also. They are the best teachers of our life, they teach them manner and value. My parents love me unconditionally. When we were child, we were depend on them. They are caring for us. They teach us strong for any situation. Every bad situation my parents beside with me. They try their best for us. They help me when I face problems. Whenever I need help with basic in life they always gave me a positive answer. They love me so much. I should some responsible for my parents. I love my parents so much.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:26:07 PM
These are the things we should be grateful to our parents:

1. A Great Childhood: Great childhoods are not hard to create. Kids can have fun in almost any household, no matter how well off or financially troubled the parents are. Kids don't need a toy chest full of toys or to travel all over the world.
2. Just Enough Attention. Some parents smother their children, making their children reliant upon them and not the smallest bit independent. Then you have the parents who are either too busy or too careless to give their children attention; failing to guide them and to be parents. Parenting seems to be a balancing act. You balance your personal time with the time needed to maintain a healthy mother/father/son/daughter relationship.
3. Financial Support. Parents should support their children until they can support themselves. Not even until the can barely support themselves, but until they can comfortably support themselves.
4. Love. Children need love growing up. It's not about making them feel special or coddling them. It's about teaching them the importance of love, teaching them how interpersonal relationships are supposed to work.
5. Respect. Respect is not only for your elders; it's also the other way around. In fact, it's every way around. Each individual should have respect for every other individual.
6. Clear Guidance And Good Advice. If your parents didn't guide you or give you good advice growing up, then they didn't do the best job they could. There is no excuse for not talking to your children and having a trusting relationship. If you have a clear, open line of communication, just don't give your child bad advice. There's really nothing more to it.
7. All The Things They Taught You. Parents were the teachers before teachers were teachers. Once we invented schools, it seems that parents decided to wipe their hands clean of being their child's instructor. There are always things you can teach your child. Even if he or she is already studying in school, help your child learn more. In fact, you may be your child's only hope.
8. Be There For You When You Needed Them. Having parents who support you, listen to you and who are there for you when the going gets tough in every form of the meaning, is something that is truly priceless. The family bond can be extremely powerful if worked on from the beginning and continuously nurtured. It's the ideal support team for when life becomes too much for you.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:26:32 PM
We should be grateful to our parents.Our parents are one of the most important parts of our life.They are our support network.They are the only unselfish friends of us who do everything for us without hoping to be paid back.We should be grateful to them because they taught us what is right & wrong,they taught us how to love,they are always supportive of our undecided decisions,they are honest even when we don't want them to be,they always make us feel loved,whether it is said or not.Everyday they worry about us & want to make us the best version of ourselves.Education is important & they always push us to be the best.Finally,we should be always grateful to our parents because they helped form us into the semi responsible adult we are now.I'll be always grateful for all their hard work that helped get me to where I'm today.They play the role as both authority figure & my best friends.After almighty Allah we should be most grateful to our parents,because no one here on this earth will ever love us as much as they do,nor will anyone love us the same.
Thank you.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:27:24 PM
Parents is important part in our life.we are great full to our parents because they have given all the love and care and brought us in this beautiful surroundings of always helping us to difference between what is right and what is wrong. They have taught us to respect our elder and loves younger. They send us to a good school where we can be educated to become responsible person. They taught us good manners value of love friendship honestly truthfulness etc.we spent our entire lives caring and providing for parents. It would never be enough to repay their kindnesses unconditional love sacrifices and they caring us without any questions. They even say our first word. They are very important for our every second of our life. Parents is the best gift for us from Allah.we are proud to have a parents in our life.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:28:06 PM
Parents are blessings for us. There place is after God. Our mother keep us their womb in 8/9 months, its not a simple work but only mother can do it. They get up early in the morning and prepare us, make breakfast, if they are working woman, after finishing household work they do their job. Housewife mother's also have many responsibility. She has to maintain all sides of work in our house. We are enable without our parents. Yes Father's can't spend lots of time with us but they are work for our happiness and for fulfilling our all needs.We just see they just give us money but we have to remember one thing if our mother's are housewife then how could we get money if he don't provide us. If we fall any trouble at first parents remain beside with us then friends will come. We do many wrong things, they forgive us so why don't we grateful for them. No one think for our future but only parents think and work hard for our secured future. They have face many problems for managing house, our studies fees, they also have to keep savings for our future. So we should obviously be grateful with them because we can't here without them , we can see the bad situation of orphan people, how helpless they are. We are lucky to have parents, we are nothing without them.
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Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:28:41 PM
Parents are the most dearest, most wanted, most valuable and rich persons to me.I can not think for a single moment without my parents. They are like the fountains from which endless flow of affection, love and tenderness comes out.There are countless reasons for why I should be grateful to my parents.

Some reasons are given below:
1.They love me very much.
2.They give me money without any benefit.
3.They never harassed me.
4.They never give me the wrong direction.
5.They never make me unhappy.
6.They never give me any tension.
7.They never do any selfish attitude to me.
8.They are my support network.
9.They are my inspiration.
10.They always give me the clear guidance and good advice.
11.They teach me what is right and wrong.
12.They are always supportive of my undecided decisions.
13.They helped form me into the semi-responsible adult I am now.
14.They always protect me from any kind of problems.
15.They mean the world to me.
16.They always hear my pain and solve my pain.
17.They teach me how to live in the world.
18.They are the leader,founder,instructor of my life.

These are the little reasons to be grateful to my parents. And one thing is that" the most beautiful thing in this world is to sea my parents smiling and knowing that I am the reason behind that smile.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:29:24 PM
When anyone asked about the people who taught us the most,who were there for us through hardships, who laughed with us during the good times, who put up with us on our off days,most ot us think immediately of our parents. And it is true,our parents are the ones who have been with us through almost everything in our lives. Our mothers carry us for 9 grueling months before we are born, and for at least eighteen years afterwards,our parents, to list a few things, take care of us,teach us,help us,and provide for us financially and academically.My parents are the dearest and most wanted persons for me.They are the source of my inspiration. My parents are very fond of me.They are affectionate to me.I cannot think for a single moment without my parents.They are like the fountains from which endless flow affection, love and tenderness comes out.They are always busy to guide and protect me.They are my whole world.When I fall ill,they become very anxious, specially my mother,she doesn't sleep for while. She passes the whole night without taking a rest or a meal.But when I come round,they become happy.Their heart fill joy. Without them,most of us would not be in the places we are today.They are most beautiful, valuable gift from God.We cannot reimburse their contribution anyway.For everything, we should be grateful to our parents.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Afroza Akhter Tina on April 02, 2017, 03:31:58 PM
Thank you so much Sir for sharing so many nice things about our parents.




Afroza Akhter Tina
Senior Lecturer
Department of English, DIU
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:33:49 PM
Much more are coming.......stay tuned.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Mustafizur rRhman on April 02, 2017, 03:34:47 PM
Parents are such a bless,a beautiful gift of Allah Almighty.They are the guardian, caretaker,protector of a child.They raise and nurture the child.For everyone it is very essential to be grateful to our parents.Because, our parents take care of us from the first day we born to till their last breathe.They are very helpful and support us for our development. Many people may come in our life for short time or in our good times, but our parents are all time with us.They always protect us from any kind of trouble.They always try their best for us.When we born,we were unable to survive our self. Like, we cannot eat, we cannot talk to anybody,we cannot walk,that time they protect us.They taught us how to survive. They always guide us like a teacher.Even now, when we need mental,financial, educational,medical etc help,our parents are all time ready to help us.They always ready to protect us from any danger. Actually, parents are everything for a child.They are the real guide,real protector.Now we are in this beautiful world,we are educated,our success everything that we achieve only because of our parents.Without them most of us would not be in the places we are today.As a muslim,respecting parents is one of the most significant aspect.Allah has commanded us to treat our parents with utmost respect,no matter the situation we are in.Parents are also respectful and worshipful in all religious.
I specially very much grateful to my mother.She means everything to me.Though my father died about three years ago,still she try to do everything for my happiness. From her I learned how to be polite,affectionate and responsible.Overall,she is my best teacher,protector,guide and my idol.
Parents are our happiness,our life.We cannot live without them.They are Almighty Allah's gift to us and Allah can take them back whenever he wishes.If they can all time ready for helping us,for our safety;so,it is our responsibility to protect and take care of them at their old age.Parents are the symbol of forgiveness.So,always we should be grateful to our parents.There are many days we celebrate, like Father's day,Mother's day, Parents day etc.But one thing we should not forget that-respecting, honouring appreciating parents is not just for a single day of the year,but rather for each and everyday.
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Afroza Akhter Tina on April 10, 2017, 01:34:28 PM
We all share similar feelings! Are these responses of your students, Sir?





Afroza Akhter Tina
Senior Lecturer
Department of English, DIU
Title: Re: WHY ARE PARENTS SO GREAT?
Post by: Sarjana Ahter on April 11, 2017, 04:45:48 PM
I have lost my mother then I lost everything