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Educational => You need to know => Topic started by: shibli on March 19, 2011, 11:16:03 AM
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If a person makes an allegation of adultery against another person (male or female), only then he or she must produce four witnesses to support such an allegation: “And those who accuse chaste women [of adultery] and then do not produce four witnesses….â€; otherwise, he or she is guilty of slandering, which is a grave offense in Islam.
In this male dominating society, girls are maltreated and victimized, no doubt about that. But the punishment should be given to both the culprits(both boy and girl). If the girls who are also involved in the heinous crime are escaped from punishment, they may come up with false complaints. Now-a-days, boys are also exploited by girls both psychologically and financially. Thus, if the judge or the authority gives verdict only in the favor of girls, justice will be denied. The judgment should be impartial, otherwise they will have to answer to the Lord of the Worlds, the Almighty in the Hereafter.
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Respected Shibli Sir
I request you please go through the link
http://alvinology.com/2008/11/13/acjc-girl-gets-tied-up-and-tortured-by-friends-celebrating-her-birthday/
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article58495.ece
http://www.suicide.org/violence-torture-rape-and-suicide-in-bangladesh.html
http://www.womensviewsonnews.org/wvon/2011/03/women-and-girls-among-the-tortured-in-mubaraks-egypt/
http://www.sowetanlive.co.za/news/world/2010/12/29/boys-torture-girl
After see those link I will continue to discuss about your topic..
Thank you
BIDITA
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Respected Shibli Sir & Bidita Apu,
I've read the posts by you both & links that Bidita Apu given to explore. It is my personal feeling that, yes!! in most cases, women are the worst sufferers in these kind of situations. But according to Shibli sir, it is also true that when a girl makes such kind of stories, no one takes the interest on that, they makes jokes about it.....Ive seen these kind of nuisance.
Bidita Apu........the links you have given is very much anticipative about the women's present situation. Today the young generation makes it as a "game" for them..........teasing girls, torturing them & so forth. I don't know much about the things, But I've tried to express my feelings about the whole things, as far I understood it.............
Thanks both of you for featuring this complicated matter..........!!!
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Most of the cases girls are affected by boys. I suggest to that girls please protect yourself first no one can help you rather you are not helping you. And for boys they are strong determined human being so some bad act are not suits you. You are the one who creates a good thing beside you in this world and have to respect all of women around you,this is the 1st lesson of your life..
So we have to balance both man and women that they are growing a happy world by love, affection, sacrifice, respect etc..Thats all for today
Best regards
BIDITA
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100 lashes for the girl and 100 lashes for the boy as punishment for adultery. In this age, we cannot give lashes but both the culprits should be punished..
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Respected Sir
How can you say that sir? Because If you look at the history that are different case. And today's perspective I would like to blame the parents who are not maintain proper responsibility there in childhood time.
PLease follow the link here I mentioned about some real situation
http://www.biditarahman.com/2010/11/developmental-psychology/
Thank you
BIDITA
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Bidita
You performed Hajj, you are a good girl. But Not all girls are alike. Yes, you are right. Parents are the best teachers in inculcating moral values to the children.
Warmly,