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Title: Start loving your grandparents
Post by: Faiyaz on April 16, 2011, 08:52:07 PM

To call a spade a bloody shovel, perhaps I would not start this topic and perhaps would be the last person to post in this type of topic if anyone else would have started it, because I didn't want to discuss anything that I feel jinxed...
But now I wanna discuss this, because my grandfather whom I considered more as a friend than an elderly person, gave his earthly body away to meet his creater this past wednesday.
I've always been emotionally attached with him. My thoughts, my personality, my theological point of view and even my (what people say is a negative thing in me) swagger is all because of him.
I used to be a shy boy and I used to have an inferiority complex in me... 
But that GREAT MAN (BY THE GRACE OF ALMIGHTY ALLAH) changed that M. Faiyaz Naveed, what he is today (BY THE GRACE OF OMNIPOTENT ALLAH)...
Even he was one of the reason when I finally decided that I'd built a carrier around business studies (INSHALLAH).
Now I'm not gonna be diplomatic. Our generation tend to avoid the words and the closeness of these elderly figurers. But when these BURA MANUSH expire then we start to think that 'how great would that be, if I had spent a little more time with them!' I can tell you this because I had felt the same when my grandma expired 4 years back.
So make sure you don't repent when you loose them... And try to imbibe their good qualities and try to spend as much time as you can with'em. Because you can have your time for adda for the rest of your life, but perhaps you won't have them for that long...           

Title: Re: Start loving your grandparents
Post by: nusrat-diu on May 07, 2011, 08:23:00 PM

I'm quite moved..thanks Faiyaz for the post.

Title: Re: Start loving your grandparents
Post by: goodboy on May 12, 2011, 12:33:40 AM

Bro, really touching!!!!!!!!! For your loss, I can only feel sorry for you.

But at the same time, I wanna pay my respect to your grandparents, who are passed by, and left the earth forever!!!!!

and yes!!!!! when one is lost, then we can manage to feel the importance of them, and this not the system we should follow.

Thanks for the post, buddy.......And thanks for sharing your feelings & truth of life. Be well. 

Title: Re: Start loving your grandparents
Post by: nature on July 23, 2011, 08:46:29 PM

We all love our Grandparents and our grandparents also love us.....

Title: Re: Start loving your grandparents
Post by: Antara11 on July 24, 2011, 02:45:16 PM

May god bless your grandpa's departed soul. My grandpa died a long ago when my papa was a student. But my grandma was someone special to us and my parents are the people who taught us to consider as her someone special.She died 5 years ago. But still now whenever I go home to see my parents, as soon as I cross the main door I heard her voice, as she used to call me whenever I used to go home in vacation from university.

It's a special feeling, nobody will understand. I never want to forger her voice.

Antara
Lecturer
English Dept

Title: Re: Start loving your grandparents
Post by: Golam Kibria on August 12, 2011, 08:55:45 AM

We always respect our grandparents. If you give us their love  Allah can give us happiness.

Title: Re: Start loving your grandparents
Post by: BRE SALAM SONY on August 12, 2011, 04:05:06 PM

yeas dear friend we are really feel our grandparents.
i am lost my grand father after my born at the age of 1 years.
but i feel my grandfather.

please pray for  my grandparents.

Thanks

Title: Re: Start loving your grandparents
Post by: Golam Kibria on August 12, 2011, 07:19:37 PM

We all pray for all our grandparents. May Allah bless them.