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Really amazing
Isn't it possible in our country ???

Common Forum / Re: My Feelings about DIU
« on: October 08, 2012, 08:04:25 PM »
New ribbon of our varsity is really outstanding, extraordinary and standard.
I feel something special when I wear it.
This ribbon proves that DIU really think about the students.
I'm sure that no other varsities provide this kind of ID card & ribbon to their students.

Really I feel proud to be a student of DIU

Common Forum/Request/Suggestions / Married or not you should read this
« on: October 08, 2012, 01:35:46 AM »
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

By: Ennaid Seyer

This ribbon deserves this price

Job market for DIU student / Re: Job Opportunity
« on: September 18, 2012, 09:00:19 PM »
Can students of BBA 5th semester apply for this ?

Common Forum / Love - An amazing fact
« on: August 04, 2012, 03:14:59 AM »

Her name is Katie Kirkpatrick, 21 yrs old. Next to her is her fiancé, Nick, 23. (Pic1)

This picture was taken prior to their wedding January 11th, 2005.
Katie has terminal cancer and spends hours in chemotherapy.
Here Nick awaits while she finishes one of the sessions...(Pic2)

Even in pain and dealing with her organs shutting down, with the help of morphine,
Katie took care of every single part of the wedding planning.
Her dress had to be adjusted several times due to Katie 's constant weight loss. (Pic3)

An expected guest was her oxygen tank. Katie had to use it during the ceremony and reception.
The other couple in this picture is Nick's parents, very emotional with the wedding and to see their
son marrying the girl he fell in love when he was an adolescent. (Pic4)

Katie , in a wheel chair listening to her husband and friends singing to her. (Pic5)

In the middle of the party, Katie had to rest for a bit and catch her breath.
The pain does not allow her to stand for long period of time. (Pic6)

Katie died 5 days after her wedding. To see a fragile woman dress as bride with a beautiful smile
makes you think... happiness is always there within reach, no matter how long it lasts.....
lets enjoy life and don't live a complicated life. Life is too short.
Work as if it was your first day.
Forgive as soon as possible.
Love without boundaries...
Laugh without control
and never stop smiling.
Please pray for those suffering from cancer.
We all have close to our heart.
Keep this going.

Prayers are always answered.

Life is too short to argue and desperate.

Common Forum / Re: Real Life Shrek Existed !!! :O
« on: August 02, 2012, 06:46:33 PM »
Thanks mam for your comment
After knowing about this person I searched for Fiona and couldn't find anything about her.

Common Forum / A rare picture of Ahsan Manjil
« on: August 02, 2012, 12:47:51 AM »

Honor guard at ease on the grounds of Ahsan Monjil , Dhaka awaiting the arrival of sir Fuller (1905 )


This should be posted in every school or kid's bedroom.
Love him or hate him , he sure hits the nail on the head with this!!!
Bill Gates recently gave a speech at a High School about
eleven (11) things they did not and will not learn in school.

He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it!

Rule 2: The world doesn't care about your self-esteem.
The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss

Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity.
Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: They called it opportunity.

Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault,
so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you
talk about how cool you thought you were: So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room..

Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer.
*This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters.
You don't get summers off and very few employers
are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF.
*Do that on your own time.

Rule 10: Television is NOT real life.
In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

Rule 11: Be nice to nerds.
Chances are you'll end up working for one.

Common Forum / Real Life Shrek Existed !!! :O
« on: August 02, 2012, 12:32:37 AM »

For those of you who don’t know who Shrek is, let me explain: he is a big and not so attractive green ogre in this animated movie that goes by the same name. Yes he is a fictional character, but imagine the real lif
e Shrek. He actually existed! The French Maurice Tillet, born 1903, was better known as the “Freak Ogre of the Ring” because he was a professional wrestler.

But why he got compared to Shrek is because he had Acromegaly, a disease that made his bones grow uncontrollably large, so for many people he looked weird, and many would say scary and ugly like Shrek. But as Shrek he was a charismatic guy.

( search his name in Google images , u will find more pictures )

Common Forum / Re: Lets know what is bluetooth
« on: August 02, 2012, 12:23:37 AM »
Thank you Sir

Common Forum / Re: Report on "Corporate personalities of Bangladesh"
« on: July 29, 2012, 09:48:24 PM »

Regional Brand Director

Name           Zaved
Hometown   Dhaka
Masters   Institute of Business Administration, University of Dhaka

About him

Career Marketer, having worked for 3.5 years in Trade Marketing and Brands for British American Tobacco, joined Unilever in in 2000. Between 2000 and 2004 worked in Oral care and later in Tea Based Beverages for Unilever Bangladesh. The highlights of the stint in Oral has been igniting profitable growth in a category from single digits to strong double digits while successfully inhibiting Colgate in the market. In Tea, led a comprehensive Value Chain Analysis which eliminated non-valued added costs and improved margin for the category. His immediate past assignment was in Skin (Skin Cleansing and Skin Care) in Bangladesh where the category grew by 21% and with the crowning glory being Lux gaining 10.6% share points over last year.


- Business Acument and Startegy Formulation
- Brand Mix Development
- Integrated Brand Communication Development and Implementation
- Consumer and Trade Research


Brand Director, Rexona Asia

Unilever Asia Pte Ltd

Marketing Manager

Regional Brand Innovation Manager
Unilever Asia

Territory Manager
British American Tobacco Bangladesh

Asst Brand Manager
British American Tobacco Bangladesh

Brand Manager
British American Tobacco Bangladesh

Common Forum / Re: Report on "Corporate personalities of Bangladesh"
« on: July 29, 2012, 09:45:54 PM »

Kaiser Wahab
Director Human Resources
Huawei Technologies 


Name           Kaiser Wahab
Hometown   Dhaka
HSC   Adamjee Canonment College
Honors   Dhaka University
Masters,Public Administration   Dhaka University
PGDHRM Human Resources   IPM (Institute of Personnel Management)

About him

Professional Affiliation: Member in SHRM, USA.
12+ Years professional experience in the field of Human Resources covering all areas of HR competencies & disciplines. Worked in Telecommunications, Oil & Gas, pharmaceutical sectors etc.

•   Best Employee Award (Huawei Bangladesh)
•   Best HR Team Award (Huawei President Gold Award)


- Expert in HR Transformation & HRBP/HRSSC Model
- Expert in HR Business Strategies & Legal Compliances
- Centre of Excellence (COE) in Huawei AP Region
- Expert in Merger, Aquisitions
- Expert in Global Managed Services, Due Diligence etc.
- Expert in Talent Management & OD
- Lead HR Department for MNC
- Multinational Experience in American, European &
  Chinese & Asian Local Conglomerates
- Global HR best practices


HR Manager
LM Ericsson Bangladesh Limited

HR Specialist
Motorola Inc.

HR officer

HR Executive

HR Officer

Common Forum / Re: Report on "Corporate personalities of Bangladesh"
« on: July 29, 2012, 09:41:07 PM »

Suman Bhattacharjee
Human Resources Director

Name:           Suman Bhattacharjee
Hometown:   Sylhet

MBA (Finance)   Institute of Business Administration, University of Dhaka

About him

Serve as strategic partner to management by integrating HR strategies into organization's overall mission and operational strategy. Develop and / or review HRM "Best Practices" periodically. Develop, review, implement, and update applicant tracking, employment practices, compensation, benefits, and human resources programs and methods on a regular basis. Conduct and participate in annual "like organization" surveys to ensure competitive compensation and benefit plans.


Risk Management, Relationship Management, Customer Service, Compliance


Human Resources Director

General Manager - Human Resources
Cairn Energy

Head of HR
Concern Worldwide

Common Forum / Re: Report on "Corporate personalities of Bangladesh"
« on: July 29, 2012, 09:38:21 PM »

Abu (Daud) Khan
Enroute International Limited

Name:           Abu (Daud) Khan
Hometown:   Khulna
HSC                   Jhenidah Cadet College
MBA, Marketing   Institute of Business Administration (IBA)

About him

Passionate, result driven, Business Leader. Focussed on achieving exceptional results in complex enviornments. Strong orientation in developing and executing Business Strategy, Customer and brand development, optimizing supply chain costs. Maintaining focus on operations and finance to deliver business results consistently.


Strategy,  Leadership, Networking, Branding and Identity management, corporate affairs management.


General Manager

National Sales and Business Development Manager
Nokia EA Ltd

Key Account Manager
Sony Ericsson

Demand Manager
British American Tobacco

Area Manager
British American Tobacco

Territory Officer
British American Tobacco

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