It's my first post in the forum after nearly 6 months. I just wanna share a thing with you guys.
I think we all are not juvenille and quite open minded, more than that as its common forum it's quite okay to speak about these stuff since common forum is a forum to speak about common aspects of human environment...
Many days ago I was thinking about a line of the film kuch kuch hota hai and that line was, 'Hum pyar ekbar...', but I think that's quite lame. Now people may say that it's quite pervertedness, but I see this as a human attitude.
Just think guys, you don't have any commitment towards your ex. You have given it more than one shot to improve it but it didn't change. Now, if you find a person who just fits much with your mindset and you could find a 'peace' within that person, then why can't you fall in love again? For better relevance, think of your parents, e.g.- your mother is more dearer to you than your father. Why? Because your mother doesn't say any rude words with you, hides your mistake etc. Actually the thing is, she eases you more than your father. Now this is completely natural and if you show 'favorism' in your parents then why can't this happen here? Now dont say that it's another type of love. Because, to me love is the defination of feeling the uneasy of absense. Think, if your mother goes for shopping, forgets to take cell phone with her and takes much time than usual to come back; then you would definately feel tensed because you love her. The same thing, I think, should be applied to each and every lovable persons.
Now coming back to 'love only happens once', assume you like a girl of your school. She understands you, helps you in your chores and have quite similar mindset. And you fall in love with that girl and express your feelings to her. But ironically she refuses. But is this the end of the 'love' road for him? and won't he get anyone better than her? Absolutely he can have. He may never forget about her since it was his first 'matured' (not crush) love but he may have the beautiful existence of love again...