Watch your thoughts; words; actions; habits; Character becomes your destiny.

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Offline md

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While a man was polishing his new car,
his 4 yr old son picked up a stone
and scratched lines on the side of the car.
In anger, the man took the child's hand
and hit it many times not realizing
he was using a wrench.


At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers
due to multiple fractures.


When the child saw his father.....
with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
The man was so hurt and speechless;
he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.


Devastated by his own actions..... .
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;
the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.


Anger and Love have no limits;
choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely
life & remember this:
Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
The problem in today's world is
that people are used while things are loved.


Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:
Things are to be used,
People are to be loved.

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.


I hope you have a good day no matter what problems you may face
it's the only day you'll have before it's over.

Offline raju

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Wow! What a story or history! Thank you sir for your contribution.......
Syed Mizanur Rahman
Head, General Educational Development &
Director of Students' Affairs, DIU

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Sir, This is really a fantastic lesson . We should read this frequently, at least 1 time of a week. Thanks again Sir.
Rafiqul Alam Rubel
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Daffodil International University
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Offline Shamim Ansary

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A pathetic story, mingled with educative lesson. I am really moved...!
"Many thanks to Allah who gave us life after having given us death and (our) final return (on the Day of Qiyaamah (Judgement)) is to Him"

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Allah has written down the good deeds and the bad ones. S/he who has intended a good deed n not done it, Allah writes it down with Himself as a full good deed, but if s/he's intended it and done it, Allah writes it down with Himself as from 10 good deeds to 700 times or many times over. Sahih Hadith
Those who worship the natural elements enter darkness (Air, Water, Fire, etc.). Those who worship sambhuti sink deeper in darkness. [Yajurveda 40:9]; Sambhuti means created things, for example table, chair, idol, etc.